Tuesday 31st October.
Hallowe’en will always remind me of my dad, because it was his birthday and Mum always made a “clootie” dumpling with silver threepenny bits in it. She also made a huge scone, which was hung from the pulley in the kitchen and smothered in treacle, while we tried to take a bite from it with our hands behind our backs! My brothers used to push the treacly scone into my hair. All part of the fun! All that and dropping a fork into a basin to catch one of the bobbing apples is one of my most vivid childhood memories.
I didn’t know then of course (and I don’t think my parents knew either) that the bobbing apples were supposed to represent the poor souls being ducked to make them confess to being witches. It was a catch 22 situation for if they survived that was proof that they were witches, so they were burned anyway. I suppose many of our traditions are derived from other barbaric practices in our history
Didn’t get any guisers except Karen next door with Yvonne, dressed as a mummy! She had made the outfit out of an old downie and it was very effective. I screamed convincingly when she came to the door!
Still sorting things out in John’s room, deciding what to keep etc. Some old videos which I must get copied to dvds. Couple of John playing and me singing about 15 years ago, but I couldn’t watch them at the moment.
After all that bending etc. my back was pretty weak and sore. I think too it was because I was trailing a bit yesterday having to go to the ENT at Lauriston . What a waste of time too, as I thoughtt it was to get my new hearing aid, but it was just to clean and repair my current one. I won’t get the new one till after Christmas. Wish I had got the same op on my left ear that I got on my right thirty six years ago. It was a great success.
Yesterday too I was so pleased when Kay came in to tell me how she got on working as a volunteer tutor at the Adult Basic Learning course at the Pennypit. She enjoyed it very much and met some interesting people. I'm glad she's getting into the swing of things again. Brought me some shopping and lifted the boxes out of the cupboard to make it easier for me to go through them.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Monday, October 29, 2007
Grandpa's magic tricks
Monday 29th October
It was great fun at Kay’s yesterday watching the bairns all playing together. Robert actually had his party on Friday for his little school friends, but this was a little grown up party with Nan and Jerry and Kay’s friend Jenny and husband Nick with Eve (nine)and Millie three, so that made seven wee ones altogether(counting Jonathan who is fourteen). Ailie loved looking after little Millie and there was lots of laughter and great excitement when Robert blew out the six candles on his birthday cake! Didn’t know that birthday candles doubled as sparklers nowadays. Kay had made a trifle and they were teasing me about the one I made at New Year when I put the jelly and custard in the wrong way round!
One of Robert's presents was a magic set, so he was trying to do some of the tricks. Then, of course they all wanted to do the ones like Grandpa used to do. Jonathan was trying the one about rubbing the balloon on his head, then sticking it to the ceiling, but he couldn’t quite manage it. Funny, coming home in the car he said he kept wondering where John was and thinking he would come into the room at any moment. I was thinking that he WAS there actually, because I can see him in every one of them
and it gives me a warm feeling knowing that they remember all his magic tricks and how he was able to make toys and repair anything for them that was broken. Arthur came later. Had cup of tea. Talked about car etc. In the morning when he was here we had a good blether about songs.
Ray couldn’t manage today. Going to phone to arrange another day. Chris here for lunch.Glad I have lots of soup in the freezer, as it’s so handy - and tasty. Going to try carrot and coriander this week instead of my usual broth or lentil.
Helen came in. Showed us a lovely jacket she got on ebay. She seems to have a knack for getting bargains, but I think I’m too wary about taking a chance. I read in one of the letters in my “Oldie’ magazine that women in my age group should be more adventurous in their dress and wear plunging tops (to show off the wrinkles?), slinky black trousers, sleek silver trainers, long earrings, floaty scarves etc. Can’t picture myself somehow!
Walked along to see how Joyce and Dick got on at the Radisson.They enjoyed it and saw lots of folks they knew. It’s lovely to see Dillon curled up before the fire again. Lucy followed me along and was waiting at the gate to follow me home. She gets more human every day!
It was great fun at Kay’s yesterday watching the bairns all playing together. Robert actually had his party on Friday for his little school friends, but this was a little grown up party with Nan and Jerry and Kay’s friend Jenny and husband Nick with Eve (nine)and Millie three, so that made seven wee ones altogether(counting Jonathan who is fourteen). Ailie loved looking after little Millie and there was lots of laughter and great excitement when Robert blew out the six candles on his birthday cake! Didn’t know that birthday candles doubled as sparklers nowadays. Kay had made a trifle and they were teasing me about the one I made at New Year when I put the jelly and custard in the wrong way round!
One of Robert's presents was a magic set, so he was trying to do some of the tricks. Then, of course they all wanted to do the ones like Grandpa used to do. Jonathan was trying the one about rubbing the balloon on his head, then sticking it to the ceiling, but he couldn’t quite manage it. Funny, coming home in the car he said he kept wondering where John was and thinking he would come into the room at any moment. I was thinking that he WAS there actually, because I can see him in every one of them
and it gives me a warm feeling knowing that they remember all his magic tricks and how he was able to make toys and repair anything for them that was broken. Arthur came later. Had cup of tea. Talked about car etc. In the morning when he was here we had a good blether about songs.
Ray couldn’t manage today. Going to phone to arrange another day. Chris here for lunch.Glad I have lots of soup in the freezer, as it’s so handy - and tasty. Going to try carrot and coriander this week instead of my usual broth or lentil.
Helen came in. Showed us a lovely jacket she got on ebay. She seems to have a knack for getting bargains, but I think I’m too wary about taking a chance. I read in one of the letters in my “Oldie’ magazine that women in my age group should be more adventurous in their dress and wear plunging tops (to show off the wrinkles?), slinky black trousers, sleek silver trainers, long earrings, floaty scarves etc. Can’t picture myself somehow!
Walked along to see how Joyce and Dick got on at the Radisson.They enjoyed it and saw lots of folks they knew. It’s lovely to see Dillon curled up before the fire again. Lucy followed me along and was waiting at the gate to follow me home. She gets more human every day!
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Visiting and Visitors
Saturday, 27th October.
Seemed very dark when I woke this morning. Felt a bit cold, so switched on heating, filled hot water bottle and snuggled back down with a cup of tea and the Scotsman! Margo phoned. Going to “Blood Brothers” this afternoon. Arthur phoned later to say he was coming to take out the car battery to recharge it. He ran me round to Rita’s She showed me little coat set she’d knitted, complete with tiny boots and gloves -exquisite! I’m still plodding on with Robert’s balaclava!
Alex came in, asked if we wanted cup of tea or coffee. Suggested “Camp” coffee. Didn’t know it was still available! Reminds me of Granny’s when I was small and Auntie Nettie giving me a cup and a Rich Tea biscuit to dunk. Made me feel quite grown up. Always thought it was quite exotic, especially with the Indian gentleman on the label. Noticed a difference on the label now, as the Indian is no longer the servant, but is sitting enjoying a cup with the British soldier.
Alex ran me home and I was just in when Sandra arrived. with some books, she thought I might like to borrow. That’s great, as I’ve just finished “Two Caravans “ and I didn’t have much time to choose anything at the library yesterday. Just having a cup of tea, when Karen next door came over, with her wee girl Yvonne. She’s in first year at Preston Lodge and brought me a piece of lemon sponge cake she had made in Home Economics. Very sweet of her. Had a wee blether, as Karen knew Sandra from Ross High days.
Kay phoned about us coming down tomorrow. Robert is very excited.
Seemed very dark when I woke this morning. Felt a bit cold, so switched on heating, filled hot water bottle and snuggled back down with a cup of tea and the Scotsman! Margo phoned. Going to “Blood Brothers” this afternoon. Arthur phoned later to say he was coming to take out the car battery to recharge it. He ran me round to Rita’s She showed me little coat set she’d knitted, complete with tiny boots and gloves -exquisite! I’m still plodding on with Robert’s balaclava!
Alex came in, asked if we wanted cup of tea or coffee. Suggested “Camp” coffee. Didn’t know it was still available! Reminds me of Granny’s when I was small and Auntie Nettie giving me a cup and a Rich Tea biscuit to dunk. Made me feel quite grown up. Always thought it was quite exotic, especially with the Indian gentleman on the label. Noticed a difference on the label now, as the Indian is no longer the servant, but is sitting enjoying a cup with the British soldier.
Alex ran me home and I was just in when Sandra arrived. with some books, she thought I might like to borrow. That’s great, as I’ve just finished “Two Caravans “ and I didn’t have much time to choose anything at the library yesterday. Just having a cup of tea, when Karen next door came over, with her wee girl Yvonne. She’s in first year at Preston Lodge and brought me a piece of lemon sponge cake she had made in Home Economics. Very sweet of her. Had a wee blether, as Karen knew Sandra from Ross High days.
Kay phoned about us coming down tomorrow. Robert is very excited.
Friday, October 26, 2007
East Lothian Life
Friday, 26th October.
Feel a lot better today. Sandra popped in to tell me that her kitten has arrived. It’s four weeks old and as it’s ginger, she’s going to call it Vincent. Told her about last Sunday’s concert in church. It was great to hear such a wonderful selection of music, ranging from Peter Antonelli playing Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata to a Beatles selection by Polwarth Brass.
Dick took me the library before shopping etc.Wanted to buy two copies of “Hox” but there were none left from last night’s launch.I’m really pleased it was a success. I’d hoped to take one to Douglas on Sunday when I go down for Robert’s birthday but Erica said that Annemarie might be in with some later and she’ll let me know. Ordered a couple of books for myself when I was in.
Hairdresser and a little shopping. Sharon showed me lovely dress she’s going to wear to a dinner tonight.Janice Scott gave me a lift home. Dick is in a hurry as he and Joyce are going to the Radisson hotel for a conference on “Huntington’s Chorea”, which is what Joyce suffers from.
Managed to put some more of his stuff back in John’s room. He had kept every copy of East Lothian Life since its start as he was one its early contributors. Had a look and decided to hang on to them. Read the ones with his articles through a blur of tears, but I’m managing to type this all right. Margo and Kay both phoned. Margo is coming on Sunday, so taking me to Kay’s. Hope we can all get in the car! It will be great to see all the bairns together.
Don’t think I’ll manage the choir. Still a bit sore after yesterday.
Feel a lot better today. Sandra popped in to tell me that her kitten has arrived. It’s four weeks old and as it’s ginger, she’s going to call it Vincent. Told her about last Sunday’s concert in church. It was great to hear such a wonderful selection of music, ranging from Peter Antonelli playing Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata to a Beatles selection by Polwarth Brass.
Dick took me the library before shopping etc.Wanted to buy two copies of “Hox” but there were none left from last night’s launch.I’m really pleased it was a success. I’d hoped to take one to Douglas on Sunday when I go down for Robert’s birthday but Erica said that Annemarie might be in with some later and she’ll let me know. Ordered a couple of books for myself when I was in.
Hairdresser and a little shopping. Sharon showed me lovely dress she’s going to wear to a dinner tonight.Janice Scott gave me a lift home. Dick is in a hurry as he and Joyce are going to the Radisson hotel for a conference on “Huntington’s Chorea”, which is what Joyce suffers from.
Managed to put some more of his stuff back in John’s room. He had kept every copy of East Lothian Life since its start as he was one its early contributors. Had a look and decided to hang on to them. Read the ones with his articles through a blur of tears, but I’m managing to type this all right. Margo and Kay both phoned. Margo is coming on Sunday, so taking me to Kay’s. Hope we can all get in the car! It will be great to see all the bairns together.
Don’t think I’ll manage the choir. Still a bit sore after yesterday.
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Hospital, shopping
Thursday 25th October.
Haven’t really caught up with my blog this week, as I’ve not been feeling well at all. My old problem, plus some new ones. After seeing consultant at hospital today, however and receiving some treatment I feel a bit better. Being out a bit helped too, even though I just sat in Helen’s car and she did some shopping for me. It means I won’t have much to do tomorrow. She is a real blessing to me and keeps me cheery into the bargain.
Found it quite interesting watching people going out and in shops at the Fort. Some were struggling with big items from Argos, which made me think about the materialistic age we live in. Do we really need all the gadgets which are around nowadays? Saying that, I’m a bit of a hypocrite as I don’t think I’d like to go back to using a washboard and wringer as I did fifty years ago!
Would have loved a browse round Borders, but was just desperate to get home and have a rest.
Haven’t really caught up with my blog this week, as I’ve not been feeling well at all. My old problem, plus some new ones. After seeing consultant at hospital today, however and receiving some treatment I feel a bit better. Being out a bit helped too, even though I just sat in Helen’s car and she did some shopping for me. It means I won’t have much to do tomorrow. She is a real blessing to me and keeps me cheery into the bargain.
Found it quite interesting watching people going out and in shops at the Fort. Some were struggling with big items from Argos, which made me think about the materialistic age we live in. Do we really need all the gadgets which are around nowadays? Saying that, I’m a bit of a hypocrite as I don’t think I’d like to go back to using a washboard and wringer as I did fifty years ago!
Would have loved a browse round Borders, but was just desperate to get home and have a rest.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Cheerful visitors
Friday !9th October
Another gorgeous day. Helen came in. Going to optician to have Billy’s glasses repaired She found them in a drawer in his room, yet the staff at the home said they couldn’t find them. Each pair had a lens missing, so I was going to optician anyway with mine. Phoned Dick to say I wouldn’t be needing a lift..Kay phoned to say they were coming to make my tea at night..
Sandra popped in. Just back from Madrid with the Kevock choir. She told us about the great time she had with lots of laughs. Later enjoyed hearing about Sharon’s weekend in London at a haidresser’s show and also about her shopping.
Filled up some shelves in John’s room again, but kept finding wee notes. Seeing his handwriting like that just chokes me up.
Wonderful when bairns arrived though, giving me big hugs and chattering away. Gavin had brought toolbox to put up new valance rail in living room, so they went ahead with that and Kay hooked them up. I said it could have waited till I put the heavy curtains up for Christmas, but I must say the living room looks much better now. Helped Robert with a spelling game on toy computer Margo had left for him. He also got two Spiderman outfits. Douglas got a caddy full of golf clubs which were too small for Keir. He was so proud wheeling it up and down. Kay and I looked at the paperwork I had asked her about, so that’s all under control now.
Delicious lasagne and crusty bread for tea. Gavin laughed when I showed him photos of Rory and Ian’s wedding cake.He too loves Tunnock’s teacakes.
Another busy happy day.
Another gorgeous day. Helen came in. Going to optician to have Billy’s glasses repaired She found them in a drawer in his room, yet the staff at the home said they couldn’t find them. Each pair had a lens missing, so I was going to optician anyway with mine. Phoned Dick to say I wouldn’t be needing a lift..Kay phoned to say they were coming to make my tea at night..
Sandra popped in. Just back from Madrid with the Kevock choir. She told us about the great time she had with lots of laughs. Later enjoyed hearing about Sharon’s weekend in London at a haidresser’s show and also about her shopping.
Filled up some shelves in John’s room again, but kept finding wee notes. Seeing his handwriting like that just chokes me up.
Wonderful when bairns arrived though, giving me big hugs and chattering away. Gavin had brought toolbox to put up new valance rail in living room, so they went ahead with that and Kay hooked them up. I said it could have waited till I put the heavy curtains up for Christmas, but I must say the living room looks much better now. Helped Robert with a spelling game on toy computer Margo had left for him. He also got two Spiderman outfits. Douglas got a caddy full of golf clubs which were too small for Keir. He was so proud wheeling it up and down. Kay and I looked at the paperwork I had asked her about, so that’s all under control now.
Delicious lasagne and crusty bread for tea. Gavin laughed when I showed him photos of Rory and Ian’s wedding cake.He too loves Tunnock’s teacakes.
Another busy happy day.
Thursday, October 18, 2007
What a Wonderful world
Thursday, 18th October.
When I switched on the radio first thing Louis Armstrong was singing "What a Wonderful World” and it certainly seemed like it when I opened the curtains.
“I see skies of blue and clouds of white
The bright blessed day, the dark sacred night
And I think to myself what a wonderful world.”
A bonus too when the robin was sitting near the door waiting for breakfast, with the pair of blackbirds pecking away nearby. Leisurely breakfast, then started preparing to put cds on top shelf of bookcase in bedroom. Gave shelves a wee sponge first. Rae phoned, She’s feeling much better and asked me to ask Arthur if the band is available for the wedding, as Anna wants a party in the village hall in the evening for all the cousins and friends. I’ll phone him tonight.
Bobby came in.On holiday this week.He was going to Aldi’s and asked if I needed anything. Was going there as there was an offer on for jogging gear, as he’s going to start a new health regime after being at doctor yesterday.
I needed milk so that was fine.
Thought I would iron curtains and downie cover but “The best laid schemes etc”- The iron wasn’t working. Phoned Bobby, so he brought up spare and took mine away for repair, but by that time Jean was coming round, so had to put ironing on hold. Margo phoned to say they’re coming down at tea tme and bringing the meal with them. Said she’ll do ironing when she arrives. Gardener came next and did a good tidy up. We’re amazed the grass is still growing and still quite lush Found lots of bulbs in hut, but the geraniums in the pots are still a blaze of colour so going to leave them till later.
Jean and I had good blether. Maybe going to play in the Goth about witches. Brunton Theatre next week to see film “Becoming Jane.” discussed local news, politics, books etc. and she was so pleased to see the bairns when Margo arrived. She couldn’t believe how tall Jonathan was! Going to give him more Agatha Christie books.I see “On Chesil Beach” didn’t win the Booker
I’m very impressed by Annemarie Allan winning the Kelpie prize. What an honour for her and Prestonpans. Must get a copy for the bairns.
John made tea, Margo hung curtains. Jonathan helped me make up bed. I showed them an old video taken when Jonathan was five and Ailie two and we were all in stitches laughing, but Margo and I were a bit weepy when John was in it.Arthur came along. It was great to see him. He had great time.and looked really well. Told him about Rae so he’s going to check it out.
I feel really blessed today.
When I switched on the radio first thing Louis Armstrong was singing "What a Wonderful World” and it certainly seemed like it when I opened the curtains.
“I see skies of blue and clouds of white
The bright blessed day, the dark sacred night
And I think to myself what a wonderful world.”
A bonus too when the robin was sitting near the door waiting for breakfast, with the pair of blackbirds pecking away nearby. Leisurely breakfast, then started preparing to put cds on top shelf of bookcase in bedroom. Gave shelves a wee sponge first. Rae phoned, She’s feeling much better and asked me to ask Arthur if the band is available for the wedding, as Anna wants a party in the village hall in the evening for all the cousins and friends. I’ll phone him tonight.
Bobby came in.On holiday this week.He was going to Aldi’s and asked if I needed anything. Was going there as there was an offer on for jogging gear, as he’s going to start a new health regime after being at doctor yesterday.
I needed milk so that was fine.
Thought I would iron curtains and downie cover but “The best laid schemes etc”- The iron wasn’t working. Phoned Bobby, so he brought up spare and took mine away for repair, but by that time Jean was coming round, so had to put ironing on hold. Margo phoned to say they’re coming down at tea tme and bringing the meal with them. Said she’ll do ironing when she arrives. Gardener came next and did a good tidy up. We’re amazed the grass is still growing and still quite lush Found lots of bulbs in hut, but the geraniums in the pots are still a blaze of colour so going to leave them till later.
Jean and I had good blether. Maybe going to play in the Goth about witches. Brunton Theatre next week to see film “Becoming Jane.” discussed local news, politics, books etc. and she was so pleased to see the bairns when Margo arrived. She couldn’t believe how tall Jonathan was! Going to give him more Agatha Christie books.I see “On Chesil Beach” didn’t win the Booker
I’m very impressed by Annemarie Allan winning the Kelpie prize. What an honour for her and Prestonpans. Must get a copy for the bairns.
John made tea, Margo hung curtains. Jonathan helped me make up bed. I showed them an old video taken when Jonathan was five and Ailie two and we were all in stitches laughing, but Margo and I were a bit weepy when John was in it.Arthur came along. It was great to see him. He had great time.and looked really well. Told him about Rae so he’s going to check it out.
I feel really blessed today.
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Dillon's return
Wednesday, 17th October.
Phone call early from Rae-checking ok for a visit. Arrived about 9.30. She looked absolutely terrible.I’ve been worried about her for a while. I’m sure there’s more wrong than the light allergy she suffers from. She can’t sit in the conservatory because of the sunlight and was going to sit up the back garden for a cigarette, but I told her it was far too cold and to smoke in the house if she wanted.She looks so thin and weak.When I made oatcakes and cheese for us later on she couldn’t cut the cheese, yet is much younger than me. She’s always been a strong person too.
Told me her daughter, Anna is getting married on 17th December and she doesn’t feel up to planning a wedding. Took some photos of Kirsten away with her to get ideas about dress. I also gave her note of good caterers. I wish Anna would just arrange everything herself as Rae is really not able.
We had a bit of a laugh though, discussing some of the lecturers and tutors at university when we were there. One sang a madrigal in the lecture hall once and another appeared in a toga when we did Julius Caesar!How we wished we'd had more time to enjoy the courses,especially English language. If we weren't so old and unfit we'd like to study again at our leisure, before our brains seize up as well as everything else!
Joyce phoned to tell me Dillon is back! Dick explained that he had a phone call from the emergency vet at the Braids in Edinburgh, telling him he was there. Someone ( must have been an animal lover!) had found him in Prestonpans and taken him in. The local vet had passed Dick’s “missing” message so they were able to make contact. When he collected him he’d to pay £500! He has some injuries, so they’re keeping him indoors at the moment so there’s a happy ending! Helen arrived.She’d been along to see him.Gave me some official photos of Rory's wedding.
Phone call early from Rae-checking ok for a visit. Arrived about 9.30. She looked absolutely terrible.I’ve been worried about her for a while. I’m sure there’s more wrong than the light allergy she suffers from. She can’t sit in the conservatory because of the sunlight and was going to sit up the back garden for a cigarette, but I told her it was far too cold and to smoke in the house if she wanted.She looks so thin and weak.When I made oatcakes and cheese for us later on she couldn’t cut the cheese, yet is much younger than me. She’s always been a strong person too.
Told me her daughter, Anna is getting married on 17th December and she doesn’t feel up to planning a wedding. Took some photos of Kirsten away with her to get ideas about dress. I also gave her note of good caterers. I wish Anna would just arrange everything herself as Rae is really not able.
We had a bit of a laugh though, discussing some of the lecturers and tutors at university when we were there. One sang a madrigal in the lecture hall once and another appeared in a toga when we did Julius Caesar!How we wished we'd had more time to enjoy the courses,especially English language. If we weren't so old and unfit we'd like to study again at our leisure, before our brains seize up as well as everything else!
Joyce phoned to tell me Dillon is back! Dick explained that he had a phone call from the emergency vet at the Braids in Edinburgh, telling him he was there. Someone ( must have been an animal lover!) had found him in Prestonpans and taken him in. The local vet had passed Dick’s “missing” message so they were able to make contact. When he collected him he’d to pay £500! He has some injuries, so they’re keeping him indoors at the moment so there’s a happy ending! Helen arrived.She’d been along to see him.Gave me some official photos of Rory's wedding.
Sons and grandsons
Tuesday, 16th October.
Much better this morning. Slept all night, I was so cosy, though still a bit groggy when I stood up. Karen next door came in to ask if it’s OK to finish laying the chips beside the fence. I told her it was fine by me. she is very kind, asking if there was anything I needed done.
Carpet here at last and I’m very pleased with it. Lovely meal from Stephen, Couldn’t eat it all. going to have sticky toffee pudding tomorrow (wicked!) He washed up, put in new light bulb in kitchen and put out brown bin. Craig and Bobby moved furniture, put up curtain rail, hung mirror etc.I’m lucky to have these big strong men looking after me John would have been very proud of them. Joanne came too and enjoyed looking at Rory and Kirsten’s photos then made a cup of tea.
Much better this morning. Slept all night, I was so cosy, though still a bit groggy when I stood up. Karen next door came in to ask if it’s OK to finish laying the chips beside the fence. I told her it was fine by me. she is very kind, asking if there was anything I needed done.
Carpet here at last and I’m very pleased with it. Lovely meal from Stephen, Couldn’t eat it all. going to have sticky toffee pudding tomorrow (wicked!) He washed up, put in new light bulb in kitchen and put out brown bin. Craig and Bobby moved furniture, put up curtain rail, hung mirror etc.I’m lucky to have these big strong men looking after me John would have been very proud of them. Joanne came too and enjoyed looking at Rory and Kirsten’s photos then made a cup of tea.
Bad day
Monday. 15th October.
Felt very shivery in bed during the night. Woke up rather fluey.Wonder if it was result of the flu jag I got last Thursday. Had to cancel appointment at ENT but got another for 30th. Stayed in bed till late. After getting dressed, felt a bit wonky so lay lay on bed again. Helen phoned, then came up with soup and stayed a wee while. Slept most of afternoon, put electric heat pad on. Felt a bit better later, but did nothing for rest of day. Margo phoned, but told her I was OK. Stephen phoned to say he’s coming in to make my meal for me on way home from work tomorrow. Put big winter quilt on bed. Miss cuddles from John to heat me up.
Felt very shivery in bed during the night. Woke up rather fluey.Wonder if it was result of the flu jag I got last Thursday. Had to cancel appointment at ENT but got another for 30th. Stayed in bed till late. After getting dressed, felt a bit wonky so lay lay on bed again. Helen phoned, then came up with soup and stayed a wee while. Slept most of afternoon, put electric heat pad on. Felt a bit better later, but did nothing for rest of day. Margo phoned, but told her I was OK. Stephen phoned to say he’s coming in to make my meal for me on way home from work tomorrow. Put big winter quilt on bed. Miss cuddles from John to heat me up.
Harvest Festival
Sunday, 14th October
Harvest Festival. Lots of people brought boxes, so the front of the chuch was very colourful. Robert away on holiday.Mr Black from Longniddry was preaching. A traditional minister, so we sang all the well known harvest hymns, which we enjoyed, though we enjoy singing the more modern ones too.Lift from Janice Hooker. Telling me all about her holiday in Barcelona with her dad and showed me her photos. Came in for a cup of tea and to look at Rory’s photos. Margo came later Stephen brought some soup for me. Think he’s taking his dad’s place, while he’s on holiday. Margo helped me to move coats and stuff back. We wern’t so weepy this time.
Harvest Festival. Lots of people brought boxes, so the front of the chuch was very colourful. Robert away on holiday.Mr Black from Longniddry was preaching. A traditional minister, so we sang all the well known harvest hymns, which we enjoyed, though we enjoy singing the more modern ones too.Lift from Janice Hooker. Telling me all about her holiday in Barcelona with her dad and showed me her photos. Came in for a cup of tea and to look at Rory’s photos. Margo came later Stephen brought some soup for me. Think he’s taking his dad’s place, while he’s on holiday. Margo helped me to move coats and stuff back. We wern’t so weepy this time.
Paintings
Saturday. 13th October
Weather not so nice. Phoned Rita. We had been going to Joyce’s, but she is just coming here as Dick phoned to see Laura and Alex are coming to take them out for a meal. Still no sign of Dillon.
Rita brought her latest painting. A different style. It’s something like the Hornel I have in the sitting room with the girls merging into the landscape. I had a similar one by McTaggart before, which I really liked better. The one I had was of poor bairns by the side of a burn. In contrast I had two Victorian type paintings on either side of the Mactaggart.I know I’m very sentimental.
Surprise visit by Kay and the boys. It was great to see them. Robert raiding the cupboards for goodies of course. Although I’d bought loads of fruit, they prefer the chocolate biccies when they're here.Douglas made our cup of tea. I was worried about him handling the kettle, but Kay said he would be fine and so he was as he was very careful. Rita remarked on his nice manners.
Weather not so nice. Phoned Rita. We had been going to Joyce’s, but she is just coming here as Dick phoned to see Laura and Alex are coming to take them out for a meal. Still no sign of Dillon.
Rita brought her latest painting. A different style. It’s something like the Hornel I have in the sitting room with the girls merging into the landscape. I had a similar one by McTaggart before, which I really liked better. The one I had was of poor bairns by the side of a burn. In contrast I had two Victorian type paintings on either side of the Mactaggart.I know I’m very sentimental.
Surprise visit by Kay and the boys. It was great to see them. Robert raiding the cupboards for goodies of course. Although I’d bought loads of fruit, they prefer the chocolate biccies when they're here.Douglas made our cup of tea. I was worried about him handling the kettle, but Kay said he would be fine and so he was as he was very careful. Rita remarked on his nice manners.
Friday, October 12, 2007
Missing cat
Friday 12th October,
Another beautiful day. The grass is carpeted with leaves. I must take a photograph before they’re all blown away, though some of the trees are stiil holding on to them. In Musselburgh yesterday the cherry trees at Loretto corner are just lovely as is the red ivy on one of the houses nearer the Town Hall. Still not many bird around, just the pair of blackbirds and a robin. Here’s hoping they come back when the weather gets colder. Not much shopping, as did it yesterday but at hairdresser’s. Dick gave me a lift. Went to see Joyce . She’s very upset, as their cat, Dillon, has disappeared. They haven’t seen him for a week. Dick has put up notices all round about and Helen made up a wee letter with his picture and went round doors with it. Hope it comes back soon.
Phone call to say carpet is being fitted tomorrow, so Margaret came today instead of Wednesday to help me clean up the room after the decorator.
Call from my friend Mary from Haddington coming to see me with my other friend Cathie Next week I’ll be busy with the school being on holiday. Arthur and Catherine off to Spain. I’ll miss him.
Choir tonight - practising for harvest.Haven’t done a shoebox this year, but giving a donation towards postage etc. John used to take great pride in decorating the box beautifully for me. Phoned Sandra. She is off to Madrid tomorrow with the Kevock choir.
Another beautiful day. The grass is carpeted with leaves. I must take a photograph before they’re all blown away, though some of the trees are stiil holding on to them. In Musselburgh yesterday the cherry trees at Loretto corner are just lovely as is the red ivy on one of the houses nearer the Town Hall. Still not many bird around, just the pair of blackbirds and a robin. Here’s hoping they come back when the weather gets colder. Not much shopping, as did it yesterday but at hairdresser’s. Dick gave me a lift. Went to see Joyce . She’s very upset, as their cat, Dillon, has disappeared. They haven’t seen him for a week. Dick has put up notices all round about and Helen made up a wee letter with his picture and went round doors with it. Hope it comes back soon.
Phone call to say carpet is being fitted tomorrow, so Margaret came today instead of Wednesday to help me clean up the room after the decorator.
Call from my friend Mary from Haddington coming to see me with my other friend Cathie Next week I’ll be busy with the school being on holiday. Arthur and Catherine off to Spain. I’ll miss him.
Choir tonight - practising for harvest.Haven’t done a shoebox this year, but giving a donation towards postage etc. John used to take great pride in decorating the box beautifully for me. Phoned Sandra. She is off to Madrid tomorrow with the Kevock choir.
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Elsa and Oliver
Thursday,11th October.
Elsa from University days phoned yesterday. In Musselburgh for the day to babysit her grandson, Oliver, who is two and a half, so came down to see me. His mum is Spanish and teaches at Loretto two days a week.The wee soul was a delight. A gentle bairn with beautiful smile and huge brown eyes. He was fascinated by the butterflies on the fence and various wee animal ornaments in the garden, plus the fire engine and teddy bear in the house. Elsa went back to teaching one day a week at Armadale academy after her husband died two years ago.
I had stupidly told her to get the 26 bus, but realised when I was standing at the bus stop waiting that she might have taken the 26 to Port Seton instead of Tranent. Sure enough that’s what she did, got off the bus at Robertson Avenue, was directed up Coffin Lane and finally asked two women who said “Oh aye, that’s Betty McArthur, the singer, she jist steys roond there”. As she said when she arrived, “Well, if I didn’t know Prestonpans before, I know it now.”
We had a good laugh and she was saying she’s off shortly to China, which includes a visit to see the Emperor’s warriors in situ! She is also in a book group and they go every year to the Wigtown book festival, so she told me all about all the writers who were there.
Laughed how she used to come down when our families were young to go to the games which were held at Polwarh Park and they all stayed overnight, so we used to have a great time! The bairns all slept on the floor, so there was some carry-on! Her husband was a bit of an athlete, so he really enjoyed watching the runners. When she retired,they took up hill walking.
Today, I went to the doctor, as, apart from my aches and pains, I feel so sleepy all the time. He said it might be my medication, as the strength had been increased to help me cope last year, but now that I have patches for pain it may be too much. I’ve to reduce them gradually and phone him next week to see how I’m doing. Gave me flu jag. Bought a book “A Moment in Time” by H.E.Bates in surgery.Helen had given me a lift, then we went shopping for groceries and had our lunch out. Had a sleep in afternoon, caught up on my post.Margo phoned, so had a good chat.I always look forward to her phoning. Not much on TV tonight I’m afraid.
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
Friends and family
Tuesday, 9th October
Change in the weather this morning. Pretty miserable. I felt the same at times over the weekend mainly because moving things from John’s room ready for painting. Bobby and Craig moved furniture-managed to fit it into study, so a bit cramped here. It will go back in along with lots of his stuff that I’m keeping.
Kept busy as Isabel Aitken coming. She too has only been in the Pans a year, like Jane in the choir.I met her in hairdresser's and at various coffee mornings etc. as well as in church.We’ve lots in common. Lost her husband four years ago. She has twin daughters, likes music and books. Like me she’s off to a wedding down South, then she’s going to France with her daughter who has a cottage there.
Kay arrived in afternoon with new curtain rail and spongeable tablecloth I had fancied. Good for the bairns drawing.Helped me with some business. Helen came next, so I cheered up a lot Had a good laugh. Brought some more wedding photos. Nice one of me and the boys. Caught up on family news. Gave her cakes I bought for her at stroke group coffee morning on Saturday.They made nearly £1000!
Arthur put out recycling boxes, had his favourite -cup of tea with oatcakes and cheese.
Margo came with Jonathan and Ailie on Saturday. Helped me move clothes from bedroom cupboard. Both of us upset, looking at John's things. Can't bear to part with some of them yet. Went to cemetery with flowers. Ailie helped to arrange them, then she prepared my tea.A lovely salad-artistically presented. She was very proud of it.Felt a lot better after that. I'm so lucky with them all. Jonathan stayed.He’s a really sweet boy. Sat out in the garden with me, then brought me a cup of tea, just like his grandpa.He’d brought a Peter Kay video for us to watch which was hilarious at times.
Lift from Sandra to church. Jonathan came with me as brass ensemble playing. He liked the music, but I’m not sure about the rest! What a shame, I think he just went to please me. Margo came for him, then had a visit from Arthur and Stephen.
Monday morning Rae arrived early. Afraid I was pretty upset as I’d had a dream about John and woke up crying. She was very comforting and soon cheered me up. We used to call her “Rae’s a Laugh” at school. Chris took me up for lunch, so had a good blether with her too.
I know I’m blessed with all those friends and my family, but I miss John so much at times.
“The falling leaves drift by my window
The falling leaves of red and gold
I see your lips, the summer kisses
The sunburned hands I used to hold
Since you went away the days grow long
And soon I'll hear old winter's song
But I miss you most of all, my darling
When autumn leaves start to fall.
Change in the weather this morning. Pretty miserable. I felt the same at times over the weekend mainly because moving things from John’s room ready for painting. Bobby and Craig moved furniture-managed to fit it into study, so a bit cramped here. It will go back in along with lots of his stuff that I’m keeping.
Kept busy as Isabel Aitken coming. She too has only been in the Pans a year, like Jane in the choir.I met her in hairdresser's and at various coffee mornings etc. as well as in church.We’ve lots in common. Lost her husband four years ago. She has twin daughters, likes music and books. Like me she’s off to a wedding down South, then she’s going to France with her daughter who has a cottage there.
Kay arrived in afternoon with new curtain rail and spongeable tablecloth I had fancied. Good for the bairns drawing.Helped me with some business. Helen came next, so I cheered up a lot Had a good laugh. Brought some more wedding photos. Nice one of me and the boys. Caught up on family news. Gave her cakes I bought for her at stroke group coffee morning on Saturday.They made nearly £1000!
Arthur put out recycling boxes, had his favourite -cup of tea with oatcakes and cheese.
Margo came with Jonathan and Ailie on Saturday. Helped me move clothes from bedroom cupboard. Both of us upset, looking at John's things. Can't bear to part with some of them yet. Went to cemetery with flowers. Ailie helped to arrange them, then she prepared my tea.A lovely salad-artistically presented. She was very proud of it.Felt a lot better after that. I'm so lucky with them all. Jonathan stayed.He’s a really sweet boy. Sat out in the garden with me, then brought me a cup of tea, just like his grandpa.He’d brought a Peter Kay video for us to watch which was hilarious at times.
Lift from Sandra to church. Jonathan came with me as brass ensemble playing. He liked the music, but I’m not sure about the rest! What a shame, I think he just went to please me. Margo came for him, then had a visit from Arthur and Stephen.
Monday morning Rae arrived early. Afraid I was pretty upset as I’d had a dream about John and woke up crying. She was very comforting and soon cheered me up. We used to call her “Rae’s a Laugh” at school. Chris took me up for lunch, so had a good blether with her too.
I know I’m blessed with all those friends and my family, but I miss John so much at times.
“The falling leaves drift by my window
The falling leaves of red and gold
I see your lips, the summer kisses
The sunburned hands I used to hold
Since you went away the days grow long
And soon I'll hear old winter's song
But I miss you most of all, my darling
When autumn leaves start to fall.
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Theatre Visit
Thursday, 3rd October
Went round to Jean’s to discuss theatre visits. She always makes our morning tea/coffee so special. with cups and saucers and lovely napkins and most all her home baking, Gardener here in afternoon, so everything looking much tidier.
Thoroughly enjoyed “The Importance of being Earnest”, though we all agreed that Penelope Keith was a big disappointment. She didn’t come across as the imposing character we all expect Lady Bracknell to be. In fact, we could hardly hear her voice. I’ve spoken to others who were there and they said the same. The younger characters were much better and of course the costumes and sets were excellent..
Friday, 4th October.
Usual shopping and hairdresser’s. Jean D’Arcy arrived in afternoon. So nice to see her. She was at Preston Lodge making arrangements for the prelim invigilations. I promised if she was stuck any time I would come up, thought I’m glad I don’t do it now on a regular basis. Sandra phone to ask me over for wine/ coffee/ tea. It was lovely sitting on her garden patio and she’s gradually putting her stamp on the house, with her books, plants etc.
Choir practice at night. New member, Jane, arrived. A newcomer to Prestonpans and an experienced contralto. It made a difference having harmony again.
Went round to Jean’s to discuss theatre visits. She always makes our morning tea/coffee so special. with cups and saucers and lovely napkins and most all her home baking, Gardener here in afternoon, so everything looking much tidier.
Thoroughly enjoyed “The Importance of being Earnest”, though we all agreed that Penelope Keith was a big disappointment. She didn’t come across as the imposing character we all expect Lady Bracknell to be. In fact, we could hardly hear her voice. I’ve spoken to others who were there and they said the same. The younger characters were much better and of course the costumes and sets were excellent..
Friday, 4th October.
Usual shopping and hairdresser’s. Jean D’Arcy arrived in afternoon. So nice to see her. She was at Preston Lodge making arrangements for the prelim invigilations. I promised if she was stuck any time I would come up, thought I’m glad I don’t do it now on a regular basis. Sandra phone to ask me over for wine/ coffee/ tea. It was lovely sitting on her garden patio and she’s gradually putting her stamp on the house, with her books, plants etc.
Choir practice at night. New member, Jane, arrived. A newcomer to Prestonpans and an experienced contralto. It made a difference having harmony again.
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Harvest Moon
Wednesday 2nd October
Another beautiful day yesterday. Birds here first thing, but noise from workmen scared them away. Helen arrived for lunch. Brought photos of me at the British Museum. Also black and white ones of Rory and Iain. I remember John used to develop and print his own photos when we were young. He made the enlarger out of his Mum’s old chip pan! Used to take me into the darkroom to help him!!!!!!
Met Julie on way to Tranent. Talking about Callum doing so well in the half Marathon. Bobby showed me photos of him at day centre with her and Fiona. Must go round there some time. It's just that it reminds me so much of John playing his "box" there
Really enjoyed listening to Michael Ondaatje and discussion afterwards.Louise managed to get parked right at door. Last time I was at Queen’s Hall was when I was still working. The speaker then was one of my favourite poets, Seamus Heaney
.On way home couldn’t believe it when we saw the harvest moon. Beautiful golden colour like the ones in fairy stories. Very low in sky, so we went down the coast road to Port Seton to get a better view. Giggling and laughing at ourselves “chasing the moon!”
Not so nice weatherwise today. Margaret arrived. told me Andrew Muir had died. A great character. Businessman, Piper, Soldier -a true Panner, who did a lot for Prestonpans all his life. Chris phoned-Tom Greenlaw not so well. Rita here in afternoon, brought some of her lovely sewing to show me. Helen called in. Telling us she’s buying a caravan! Bobby phoned. He’s arranged for Craig to come with him to move bedroom furniture on Friday evening . Arthur, Margo, Kay phoned later.
Another beautiful day yesterday. Birds here first thing, but noise from workmen scared them away. Helen arrived for lunch. Brought photos of me at the British Museum. Also black and white ones of Rory and Iain. I remember John used to develop and print his own photos when we were young. He made the enlarger out of his Mum’s old chip pan! Used to take me into the darkroom to help him!!!!!!
Met Julie on way to Tranent. Talking about Callum doing so well in the half Marathon. Bobby showed me photos of him at day centre with her and Fiona. Must go round there some time. It's just that it reminds me so much of John playing his "box" there
Really enjoyed listening to Michael Ondaatje and discussion afterwards.Louise managed to get parked right at door. Last time I was at Queen’s Hall was when I was still working. The speaker then was one of my favourite poets, Seamus Heaney
.On way home couldn’t believe it when we saw the harvest moon. Beautiful golden colour like the ones in fairy stories. Very low in sky, so we went down the coast road to Port Seton to get a better view. Giggling and laughing at ourselves “chasing the moon!”
Not so nice weatherwise today. Margaret arrived. told me Andrew Muir had died. A great character. Businessman, Piper, Soldier -a true Panner, who did a lot for Prestonpans all his life. Chris phoned-Tom Greenlaw not so well. Rita here in afternoon, brought some of her lovely sewing to show me. Helen called in. Telling us she’s buying a caravan! Bobby phoned. He’s arranged for Craig to come with him to move bedroom furniture on Friday evening . Arthur, Margo, Kay phoned later.
Monday, October 1, 2007
Summer in October
Monday 1st October
Beautiful day. Bedding plants still blooming. Almost like summer in afternoon, with clouds of midges dancing about. Karen brought brown bin back in. Collection day changed to Wednesday ( same as recycling boxes). Sat in seat next to hut with my morning cuppa with Karen. Their garden is taking shape now. They’re trying to get it organised before winter sets in. Chris can’t come as she’s taking Cathie to hospital. Bobby phoned. Going to phone Craig to come with him to move furniture for painter.
Went for usual walk in afternoon.Chatted to Nettie and Isa. Called in to Dick’s. Joyce so pleased I’m going to theatre with them on Thursday to see “The Importance of Being Earnest. Going to Queen’s hall with Louise tomorrow to hear Michael Ondaatje (The English Patient). Sandra can’t go, so gave me her ticket. Hope I’m not overdoing things, but Louise says it will be quite a short talk and she'll drop me and go and park.
Margo phoned. Discussed her programmes for Assembly music up to Christmas. Looked out some songs and typed up words for overhead.Arthur came along. Had a good chat.. Catherine not very well.Balaclava nearly finished, but I think it’s going to be too small!
Beautiful day. Bedding plants still blooming. Almost like summer in afternoon, with clouds of midges dancing about. Karen brought brown bin back in. Collection day changed to Wednesday ( same as recycling boxes). Sat in seat next to hut with my morning cuppa with Karen. Their garden is taking shape now. They’re trying to get it organised before winter sets in. Chris can’t come as she’s taking Cathie to hospital. Bobby phoned. Going to phone Craig to come with him to move furniture for painter.
Went for usual walk in afternoon.Chatted to Nettie and Isa. Called in to Dick’s. Joyce so pleased I’m going to theatre with them on Thursday to see “The Importance of Being Earnest. Going to Queen’s hall with Louise tomorrow to hear Michael Ondaatje (The English Patient). Sandra can’t go, so gave me her ticket. Hope I’m not overdoing things, but Louise says it will be quite a short talk and she'll drop me and go and park.
Margo phoned. Discussed her programmes for Assembly music up to Christmas. Looked out some songs and typed up words for overhead.Arthur came along. Had a good chat.. Catherine not very well.Balaclava nearly finished, but I think it’s going to be too small!
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